Audio Blood Lust

Alby wrote:How can he expect you to pay HIS costs ?

Because he says i am forcing him to move for the sake of our son. He doesn't want to have limited visitation if we live in two separate States as I will retain primary custody of my boy. I. however had no intention of moving until after the divorce became final which would be this time next year. I had a long conversation with him a few days ago about what is holding him in North Carolina and i think I forced him for the first time to really think about it and he then said "nothing" as we have no family there nor any friends other than one set who is about to move out of state themselves soon when the wife retires from the Air Force either this year or next year. He's having trouble with his job currently, and so he applied for a transfer up North within the same company just yesterday because other than it being warm and snow free in NC, there is nothing at all for either of us here. We both have family, friends, and support up North. I can transfer within the government system to a veterans hosital so my job and health care is essentially secure. I think this is his one last ditch effort on his part to try to control/hurt me. He is having trouble seeing the bigger picture.. all he sees is me pulling away from him.. not all the crap he's done to hurt me that brought us to this crossroads of our lives. I think he is also trying to be a little bit vindictive as well. Don't worry i won't pay for his expenses. He most likely apparently will move before i do since we also have a house to sell. Once all is said and done he will have half the estate so he can use that for whatever he will. I am not sure how he can justify saying that to me though. He uprooted my life first causing me to want a different life before i uprooted his with the separation.

Having some fun today!! hahaha...